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Crashing a British Wedding

November 1st 2009 14:35
Halloween evening, I was with a group of students at Salomon's retreat Centre in southwest England. The same night, a wedding took place at the Centre. Of course, normally I would have been more than happy to while the night away with my friends, dancing and laughing at costumes...but this evening it simply wasn't proving all that satisfying. I went outside for a smoke, and met one of the groomsmen, Ryan, who was desperately trying to stay on his feet as he staggered outside for some mind-clearing fresh air. Under that wonderful flag of peace that all smokers are bound by, we struck up a conversation and talked of the parties, the wedding, and the wrath of Ryan's parents once they discovered how inebriated he was. As a member of the main wedding party, Ryan was privy to free drinks at the bar, and he suggested that I join him for some "refreshment", giving me access to the wedding party's bar tab. Although he left shortly after, the situation seemed too good to pass up. It was my chance to observe a British wedding reception, and the free alcohol didn't make the decision any harder. I spent the night chatting with various wedding guests, and quickly found myself on a first name basis with many members of both the bride's and groom's families. Another groomsman and I discussed the differences between American and English weddings, the most notable difference being that marriages could only take place at liscenced facilities (like the retreat center). After a few hours of small-talk, joking about the groom, and bandaging up two bridesmaids who were apparently discovering their alcohol tolerances for the first time, I felt like one of the family and was suitably prepared to take that final step that would solidfy my position in the wedding: I approached the dance floor. The songs were relatively familiar and were, more or less, what one would expect to hear at any party involving liquor and large groups of young adults. I tentatively stepped out onto the hardwood floor and began inobtrusively swaying back and forth with the music while I planned my next move. Unfortunately I had poorly estimated the hour, and the D.J. announced the last dance of the night. Frustration set in as I realized that I couldn't call this night a complete success, but it was all washed away as the bride took my hand and pulled me out to the center of the floor. We danced the last song together, and I concluded by telling her what a pleasure it was to dance, and she reciprocated with a compliment on my wondrous dancing skills (although, it seems only fair to point out that she was by no means the most sober person in the room and was likely not in any position to be accurately judging rythymic abilities). With that, the guests began to slowly file out of the building and into a literal fleet of taxicabs. I lingered outside fo a few more moments as I bid my new friends farewell and good-luck, and then proceeded back to my humble room. The evening had been a smashing success, and was one more eventful notch in my bedpost of culture.
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Greece: Modern or Ancient?

October 31st 2009 13:31
Recently I had the opportunity to spend a week in Greece, the cradle of Western civilization. Few countries in the world have the ability to conjure up my sense of romanticism like Greece. My mind struggles to imagine a place that can encompass wonderous architecture and ruins, beautiful art, mythical gods, and a sense of physical health and well-being. Unfortunately, my arrival in Athens was enough to quickly remind me that ancient Greece is long gone and the modern country that has replaced it may not live up to all of my expectations.

Athens in particular was a disappointment for me. Large cities around the world tend to share some characteristics, and one must expect a certain level of industry and the "hustle-and-bustle" that invariably grows up around such metropolises. However, while most of these monstrous cities have an exoticism and mystery to them that makes the frustration worthwhile, Athens appears to be lacking that extra charm. Shop proprietors were short with customers and sometimes downright rude, while the smaller stores, that tend to dominate the older districts of cities, were shady an disreputable places. I've never heard a traveller extoll the virtues of taxi drivers in any country, but the Athenian cabbies were little short of predatory with tourists. The general feeling was, "everyone is out for themselves, empathy for fellow man be damned!" When I made attempts to visit the Acropolis, hoping that Athens could still redeem itself, I was told the ruins were closing early that day and that I should try again "some other time". Not an experience I've waited my whole life for.

At this point I want to make a very important point: Greece is a beautiful and wonderfful country that is definitely worth visiting. Admittedly I haven't made a very strong case for it thus far (and indeed, it didn't make a very strong case for itself) but, thankfully, there was more to my trip than just Athens. After a few miserable days in Athens I caught a ferry to Crete. Although the ferry ride lasted nearly seven hours, it was as enjoyable as transportation can be for that length of time. The ships that shuttle between the Greek islands more closely resemble mini-cruise ships than any other boat. Regardless, I was more than ready to disembark when we arrived at Heraklion, the capital of Crete. I confess, I spent little time in Heraklion itself, preferring to lounge and explore the smaller towns around it. I had hardly arrived in Crete before I decided that it was everything I had hoped Athens to be, although the taxis were really no better. The small towns on the island cater to tourists, while still providing a remarkably authentic experience. The hotel I stayed at, grandly titled, "The Prince of Lillies", was a family owned business, as were most of the restaurants and shops in the area. Although it would be misleading to try and pass it off as a resort, the owners had obviously tried to make it as pleasing an experience as possible for the weary traveller, and they were more than happy to try and meet any needs that their guests might have. The beaches were clean and clear, and the rocky cliffs in the background could have been placed there by an artist trying to create a place of perfect relaxation and beauty. In the evenings I would frequent outdoor restaurants that had live, traditional Cretan music and a mix of Mediterranian and more western foods. When I finally had to leave their idyllic island, several members of the family came to see me off, joking in a familiar way, and shaking my hands warmly. Their fondness seemed to be genuine, and I genuinely found myself expressing wishes to return and visit them again in the future.

If you are looking for an experience that won't just be a poor imitation of any large city elsewhere in the world (London, Paris, Amsterdam, etc) and have your heart set on Greece, or the Mediterranian in general, consider giving Crete a try. Athens likely won't meet your needs and expectations, and if you find yourself tired of spending too long on one island, there are many other islands that one can catch a reasonably priced ferry to.
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Be Tolerant, Like Us!

October 24th 2009 19:04
During a recent stay in Belfast, I had the opportunity to spend time with some local families from one of the Presbyterian churches in the city. Determined to provide a crash course on the culture of Northern Ireland, the men arranged a variety of experiences for me including a professional rugby match, a visit to the dry dock where the Titanic was built, and a hike up Cavehill overlooking the Belfast Lough. In the evenings we would meet in some of the families’ homes and share home-cooked meals while discussing the issues of the day and relaxing. It was very enlightening to hear their take on world events, but it was the regional politics that truly garnered my attention. The entire weekend was educational and the local hospitality was charming, going above and beyond my expectations, but it quickly became
apparent that some of the cultural differences were not as innocent.

Belfast was a rather comfortable transition for the inexperienced traveler. The primary language is English, many of the idioms are the same –though there were quite a few laughs when I first discovered that “suspenders” are the term used for garters in Ireland –and there seemed to be little risk of accidentally committing a major social faux pas. Despite the ease with which I adapted to this new way of life, a few hastily read pages hardly provide sufficient knowledge for one to be fluent in the local culture. Past troubles are rarely as far removed as we like to believe, and the history of Northern Ireland proved to be no exception.
I was aware of some of the past incidents that had plagued Northern Ireland in the 20th century, and thought that this knowledge would leave me with a reasonable understanding of the state of matters today. Since the 1700’s, Ireland has been at odds with the British Empire. In various attempts to retain control over the island, Britain imposed a wide variety of laws restricting the Irish people, predominantly Catholic, from gaining too much power. These laws ranged from limiting voting rights to the owning of land. The Irish became understandably upset by these prohibitions, and struggled to gain the full rights of citizens; many felt the only way to truly achieve this would be to become a sovereign nation. As a result, political factions in Ireland warred with the British, both through legislation and physical conflicts. Ireland seceded from Britain in 1922, and the Republic of Ireland that we have today was formed in 1948.

Although the majority of Ireland wanted freedom from the British, several counties in the northern part of the island preferred to continue the attachment to Britain. Fearful of rule by the Catholic majority, these six counties, which had primarily Protestant populations, chose to remain part of the United Kingdom. Today they make up Northern Ireland, separate from The Republic of Ireland. Unfortunately for Catholics living in these counties, the Protestant rule was no less gentle than it had been for the Ireland of old. Guided by fear of each other, tensions between religious adherents continued to rise dramatically. The Irish Republican Army (IRA), a group dedicated to uniting the entire island of Ireland, felt that the six counties belonged in The Republic of Ireland. Coupled with Catholic sympathizers in Northern Ireland, the IRA and similar factions led a resistance against the Protestant controlled counties.
In the 1960’s, tensions began to escalate between the two parties, and civil rights protestors found themselves attacked by citizens and off-duty police who favored Protestant power. Riots broke out among many of the cities with heavy Catholic populations and military troops were sent in to restore order on several occasions. By the early 1970’s, the violence had reached its highest point. Although the fighting gradually diminished, it wasn’t until the Belfast Agreement of 1998 that people felt the majority of the troubles were over.

I had the opportunity to speak with Derek, the minister of the Presbyterian church that my host families attended, about the Catholic and Protestant segregation in Belfast; the largest city in Northern Ireland, Belfast hosted the most deaths and violent acts in the country. Derek shared memories that he had of the struggles and commented on the status of Northern Ireland today. He recalled friends of his, all local citizens with no political connections or leanings, who had been murdered in the terrorism of the 1970’s. One young couple that he had married was in a hotel when an incendiary bomb, intended for political heads, detonated and destroyed the entire room. Another member of his congregation was a successful business owner who dealt in lumber. One day, several men rushed into his office, shot him in the head, and ran out laughing. Members of my host families related stories of being checked at every border, sometimes being delayed for hours, while they were searched for bombs or other terrorist materials. Although the situation has improved drastically in past years, Derek explained that there was still some mistrust between Protestants and Catholics.

Despite the improved conditions and civil rights in Belfast today, some remnants of the earlier troubles still linger. Protestant churches typically are located on better land that Catholic ones, and the city is still divided up into quarters where the inhabitants are primarily Protestant or Catholic. At the borders between these divisions, high walls have been erected to help minimize the damage done by thrown bricks and bottles wielded by those who find it difficult to move on from bitter memories. In light of this recent history, certain references are still far from politically acceptable in a land that is still healing. Peter, a member of one of the host families, told of a trip he had taken to the United States of America during St. Patrick’s Day. While spending the evening in a bar, several Americans offered to buy him drinks because of his Irish heritage. At one point that night, they insisted that he must try an Irish Car-Bomb, an alcoholic drink made from Guiness and Bailey’s Irish Cream. A popular beverage among college students, few would think of the name as insulting, but to someone who lived in a place where terrorist car-bombs were a common occurrence, it can be a painful reminder of a less than peaceful time.

Perhaps the nearest comparison that we could relate to would be the racial segregation that was prominent in America during roughly the same time period. Ironically, Europeans still find it hard to believe that America could be so backwards as to allow something as innocuous as race to become a divisive factor. While talking with locals about politics, it wasn’t until I pointed out the parallels between the racial segregation in America and the religious segregation in Ireland that they realized the similarity between the people of their own country and the people of mine. Likewise, people back in the states expressed shock that religious differences would embroil a modern country in violent demonstrations.
As patriotic citizens, we often like to think that our country is a step above the rest, and that any unfortunate events in the past should stay in the past. It is easy to look at the problems in another country and completely miss the resemblances to the problems in our own. In this case, the people of both nations suffered because of a fear and mistrust of those who were different. Rather than harshly weighing each other by a standard that we can’t measure up to either, we should learn from the mistakes that were made by both. Those who believe that America is by far the greatest country in the world, would do well to remember that only a few short decades ago we were struggling through an outrageous amount of discrimination against people whose only difference was a few shades of color. At the same time, those who deprecate America need to realize that there is no Utopia out there, no perfect country, and that other nations have wrestled with the exact same enemy that we have, just under a different name.

Spending time in Belfast was a wonderful experience that allowed me to try and see things that I had never been able to before. My first rugby game was a fantastic experience, and the delicious meals provided left me with a fuller stomach than I’d had in a long time. The greatest things I received though were a renewed appreciation for the cultural differences of other countries, the friendships made, and an understanding that we share the problems of other places around the world.
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KL Bird Park

October 12th 2008 08:47
Birds Kuala Lumpur aviary


Every city needs a claim to fame. The biggest, the tallest, the smelliest. It is not important whether, objectively, it is something to be proud of. Whether its the biggest banana, the fattest resident, the heaviest operable tumor, municipalities seem ready to exclaim records no matter how lame sneering outsiders may deem it. The important thing is laying claim to a superlative and not whether it's worth to boasting about on its own merits. It is above all else a collective self esteem issue


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Historical Aachen

September 14th 2008 08:41
Aachen Winter Palace Lucky Luke


Aachen is a salutory lesson to all who deride tax breaks, earmarking and low level government bribes to attract or retain business in their region


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What to Do in Bruges

September 7th 2008 04:49
Bruges

Lucky Luke In Bruges
Lucky Luke In Bruges

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Oktoberfest

August 31st 2008 08:19
Oktoberfest, the beer drinker’s pilgrimage to Mecca; a vague and mythical monolith like the first visit to Disneyland for a child. I remember my one trip to Anaheim as this whirlwind of anxious darting from place to place, gulping up the sensory orgy and running around like a madman before the day descended into long queues, tantrums, excessive consumption of sugery beverage, and of course, after that Space Mountain piece de resistance, a spew.

And this was my Oktoberfest too


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Bomen Berend is Here!

August 24th 2008 08:32
It's that time of year again! Time to celebrate sieges.

The budding chemist and incompetent meteorologist, the Bombing Bishop of Berend failed to take wind into account during his assaults on the walls of the hardy city of Groningen, the Netherlands' northern capital. The Gronigers stuck it out inside the walls and observed the tragi-comic Berend bombing both them and scoring toxic own goals until 28 August 1672 when the siege broke and the Bishop returned to Munster to resume his priestly pastimes


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Sydney's Biennale

August 1st 2008 03:15
I am not in a position to comment on the utility or interest of this event from an artistic point of view. I don’t understand the aims, techniques and concepts behind the works. Apparently with contemporary art that’s not supposed to matter. What’s supposed to matter is provocation of particular – perhaps any – emotions. But it doesn’t provoke in me any particular emotions precisely because I don’t understand the aims, techniques and concepts behind the works. Emotions are elicited because of the background or an event or in raw random situations when there is no understanding of the reasoning behind it, yet when the situation is confected, when the situation isn’t raw or random because its been constructed sole to elicit an emotion, how can you have that emotion with an understanding of its aims, techniques and concepts?

Sydney Biennale 2008

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Whale Watching in Sydney

July 27th 2008 06:35
Whale Watching
Whale's eye...and body


In the stairwell at Cockle Bay Wharf in Sydney there is a whale hanging from the ceiling. It is unusual and slightly unsettling. For a start it seems to be too small for a proper whale. It's only about the length of a Camry. And - weirder - it is transluscent, as if its mother bred with a jelly fish. Jelly Whale seems no sillier name than Sperm or Humpback


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